guilt – Femme Fatale over 50

What if you’re exhausted instead of lazy?

I cannot count the number of times that I’ve been called lazy. The thing about it is, I’m not lazy. I’m just exhausted. For years, I felt like I was never doing enough. I was a single mom who worked at a very demanding job. When I was at work, I felt guilty about beingContinue reading “What if you’re exhausted instead of lazy?”

Shame is like a virus

So, feelings. I’m talking about the ones we don’t like – anger, guilt, sadness, fear – those all (as near as I can tell) come pre-installed. They are natural. There is nothing wrong with you if you feel the “negative” feelings. Anger – this comes up when your boundaries are violated Guilt – you haveContinue reading “Shame is like a virus”